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E395 Inner Voice-A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Erin Williamson- Stopping Child Exploitation

E395 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Erin Williamson, the Chief Programs & Strategy Officer at Love146, where she leads efforts to prevent child trafficking and exploitation. With over 20 years of experience in social services and child protection, Erin has developed trauma-informed programs that have reached thousands of vulnerable youth across the U.S. She is also a parent, advocate, and expert in human trafficking prevention and survivor care. In 2014, Erin was hired by Love146 to build a Survivor Care program in Connecticut. Starting as a single staff member, the program has over 20 staff and serves 125-150 youth annually. Erin oversees all US-based programs, including a prevention education initiative implemented in over 30 states. Her leadership has expanded Love146's reach, focusing on trauma-informed care and addressing the complex needs of youth through the healing power of relationships and community support. Committed to bringing her on-the-ground knowledge to impact systems change, Erin has served on several state and national policy advocacy committees, including the Connecticut Trafficking in Persons Council and the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services National Advisory Committee on the Sex Trafficking of Children & Youth. Locally, she contributes as a Board of Education member in Woodbridge, CT. For more information, go to www.love146.org # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com. Summary Dr. and Erin discussed the issue of human trafficking, mainly focusing on the prevention aspect. Erin shared her background as a social worker and her work with Love146, an organization that works with children and youth who have experienced human trafficking. She emphasized the importance of prevention and the need for a multi-tiered approach, including addressing the systems and structures that make children vulnerable to trafficking. Erin also highlighted the role of schools in identifying and intervening in potential trafficking situations. Dr. and Erin discussed the challenges of working with children who have been abused or neglected and the need for long-term support and trust-building. Erin encouraged the public to support organizations like Love146 through donations and raising awareness about the issue. Erin and Dr. discussed the importance of creating a safe space for children and fostering healthy relationships. Erin emphasized the need for open communication, trust, and the importance of showing up for children even when things are difficult. She also highlighted the need for caregivers to be aware of the impact of early life experiences on children's development. Dr. added that healthy relationships involve communication and working through difficulties, and caregivers should be trained to support children in these situations. They also encouraged parents to sign up for their email series for practical guidance on conversing with their children about social media and other issues.

E394–Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Sean McMann on working less & making more

E394 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Sean McMann. Sean was recruited right out of college to work at one of the largest data firms,  and he embarked on an eight-year journey from a new graduate to a consulting director. Privileged to see behind the curtain of some of the largest corporations today, he recognized the system was broken and quit at the height of his career, when working the least but making the most money he ever had, betting everything, including his money, reputation, and time, on trying to fix the problem of the corporate jungle. He shares his insights in his new book, Hacking the Corporate Jungle: How to Work Less, Make More and Actually Like Your Life.    www.seanmcmann.com # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Corporate Power and Societal Impact Sean McMahon, a former data firm consultant, discussed his views on the corporate world and its societal role. He expressed concerns about the inefficiency and power of large corporations, arguing that they prioritize profit over people and contribute to societal issues. Sean suggested that corporations need to shift their goals from profit above all else to something else, but hasn't yet figured out what that should be. He also mentioned his book, "Hacking the Corporate Jungle," which explores these ideas. Dr. and Sean discussed the potential for corporations to evolve and adapt to changing societal needs, the inefficiencies in corporate structures, and the need for a shift in focus toward a more human-centric approach. He proposed that with efficiency and time saved, individuals should focus on activities that make them feel alive and contribute to their mental health, highlighting the need for a more efficient structure that benefits all, not just a few. They also discussed the potential for individuals to create their businesses and the importance of understanding the value of time in maintaining mental and physical health. They discussed the importance of self-discovery, identity, and fulfillment in one's career. Dedicating one's life to a corporation can lead to unhappiness and a lack of creativity. Sean suggested that people allocate some of their peak creative hours to their corporation while using the rest for personal creativity and self-care. They discussed their journeys and the factors that have shaped their lives. Sean shared his experiences since quitting his job, including a period of depression and a journey to process trauma, which led him to find hope and excitement in his daily life despite the uncertainty of his future. Dr. then shared her experiences working in a sales role and discovering her identity. Dr. decided to leave the role after realizing it required her to become a "barracuda" to make more money. Instead, she became a therapist, created her own companies and nonprofits, and eventually developed her own models. Dr. discussed the challenges of growing a collaborative community, highlighting the difficulty of maintaining structure while allowing individuality and adaptability. Sean agreed, noting the contrast between hierarchical and network structures and the need to shift towards a more networked approach to problem-solving. Both emphasized the importance of human collaboration and adaptability in complex problems. Sean McMahon, author of "Hacking the Corporate Jungle," discussed the importance of listening to one's inner voice when feeling discontent in their job. He emphasized that it's about being grateful for the job and exploring the reasons behind dissatisfaction. Sean encouraged everyone to contact him if they wanted to discuss their concerns. Remember to Subscribe, Listen, Review, and Share! Find me on these sites: *iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/i...) *Google Play (https://play.google.com/music/m/Inpl5...) *Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/) *YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/DrFoojan) Platforms to Like and Follow: *Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/DrFoojanZeine/) *Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/Dr.FoojanZeine) *Twitter (https://www.twitter.com/DrZeine/) *LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/DrFoojanZeine)

E393-Inner Voice:A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Dr. Peter Kristiansen-Ultimate Life Skills

E393 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Dr. Peter Kristiansen; in the last thirty years, he has worked as a doctor, personal advisor, and conflict resolution mediator. Through his work, he realized that our Performance and Perfection Obsessed Culture is the most pervasive-yet often hidden—villain in our lives. He wrote The Ultimate Life Skill to help people break free from the existing paradigm and shift towards a new one, allowing them to experience a more fulfilling life. TheUltimateLifeSkill.com # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com
Summary
Dr. Peter Kristiansen, a chiropractor from Denmark, discussed his journey from treating physical pain to exploring the emotional and thought processes that affect people's lives. He realized that people often seek happiness through external means, but true fulfillment comes from within. Dr. Peter discovered that the brain plays a significant role in controlling our actions and emotions, often resorting to unhealthy coping mechanisms like alcohol, sugar, or smoking. He emphasized the importance of becoming aware of these habits and learning to tolerate the emotional discomfort they cause to make wise choices and lead a more authentic life. This realization led him to write his book, "The Ultimate Life Skills," which aims to help people understand and overcome their emotional struggles. They discussed the role of emotions and the nervous system in shaping human behavior. People often struggle with intense emotions and resort to coping mechanisms such as alcohol, drugs, or excessive work to avoid them. Emphasized the importance of learning to tolerate and manage emotions, which can lead to a more authentic and honest life. They discussed the concept of self-control and forgiveness, emphasizing that people are not in control of their actions due to various factors such as addiction or bad habits. He suggested that instead of punishing oneself, one should focus on gaining control over their actions. Peter also shared his personal experience with sugar addiction and how he learned to tolerate cravings to make better choices. Dr. Peter discusses the importance of understanding and working with the body's natural responses to triggers and emotions. He suggests that instead of controlling external factors, we should focus on quieting down and being present with our bodily sensations. By tolerating and observing uncomfortable emotions, the body can naturally process and release them. This approach allows for more precise decision-making, as emotional reactions influence the brain's higher functions less. The doctor confirms this interpretation, adding that being more conscious of bodily responses can lead to better information processing and wiser choices. He suggested that all humans are traumatized due to their upbringing and the constant observation of others' emotions and actions. He emphasized that the source of unwise acting is often a misinterpretation of bodily sensations. Dr. Peter discussed the concept of willpower and its relationship with the body's response to perceived danger. He explained that the body's nervous system reacts to perceived danger, cutting off the brain's rational part and leading to impulsive behavior, and suggested that this process involves noticing when one is out of control, being aware of it, and then having the willpower to make the right choices. Emphasized the need to stop and notice when engaging in unwanted behaviors and to pause for as long as desired before resuming the original action. He shared his personal experience of overcoming addiction and stress through this method and highlighted the benefits of a more conscious and present life.
 
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E392–Inner Voice:A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Alanna Kaivalya on Way of Satisfied Woman

E392 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Alanna Kaivalya, PhD, a bestselling author, spiritual leader, and expert on mythology, spirituality, and psychology. Her global network has more than 30,000 members, and she hosts the Spiritual Leadership Podcast, initially launched in 2005. She earned a doctorate in mythological studies with an emphasis in depth psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute and is a former board member of the Carl Jung Foundation. She lives in Southern California. More information at www.thesatisfiedwoman.com
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Dr. Foojan and Dr. Alanna explored the interplay of feminine and masculine energies, emphasizing their psychological presence in all individuals. Dr. Alanna highlighted the importance of emotional depth, intuition, creativity, and communication as core feminine traits. Dr. Foojan shared his experience of neglecting his feminine side and how it affected his well-being. They discussed redefining success beyond traditional masculine ideals of linear achievement, advocating for a more holistic and community-focused approach. Women embracing their feminine strengths were encouraged to redefine success without conforming to masculine standards. Dr. Alanna used Greek mythology to illustrate these energies, contrasting Artemis’ strategic, diplomatic nature with Ares’ direct, forceful approach. She encouraged individuals to consider alternative, feminine-driven methods of achieving goals. The discussion also addressed societal pressures on women to constantly give, often leading to emotional exhaustion. Dr. Alanna urged women to rewrite these expectations and embrace reciprocity in relationships. They also discussed the misconceptions surrounding masculinity, emphasizing the importance of healthy masculinity rooted in nurturing and support rather than control. Finally, the conversation stressed the importance of balancing masculine and feminine energies within relationships and personal growth. Dr. Alanna highlighted the need for safety, security, trust, and emotional connection for women to thrive, emphasizing intuition as a guiding force.
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E391 – Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Tama Kieves about Trusting Yourself - Breaking Through the Blocks that Hold You Back

E391 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Tama Kieves, a Harvard Law School honors graduate who left her law practice to write and help others live and breathe their most meaningful self-expression. She is the bestselling author of A Year without Fear: 365 Days of Magnificence and others. Her NEWEST BOOK is Learning to Trust Yourself: Breaking Through the Blocks that Hold You Back. Featured in USA TODAY, Oprah media, TEDx, and more, she is a sought-after speaker and visionary career/success coach who has helped thousands worldwide to discover, launch, and thrive in the life, calling, and work of their dreams. She has been on the faculty of premier holistic venues, leads online programs, and taught A Course in Miracles for years. Tama is known for her smart, spitfire spirituality, electric humor, and the immense possibilities she brings out in others. Be sure to join her on social media and sign up for her complimentary "fortune cookies," digital doses of inspired mindset training at www.tamakieves.com/fortune-cookies/ # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/ Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Dr. and Tama discussed the importance of trusting oneself and drawing from their experiences. Tama shared her journey from being an attorney to becoming a writer, highlighting the societal pressure to conform to expectations rather than follow one's instincts. She emphasized the importance of trusting oneself and following one's heart, noting the need to relearn how to trust oneself amidst societal expectations. Dr. and Tama discussed the importance of listening to one's inner voice of love and strength rather than fear and weakness. Self-criticism can hinder personal growth and creativity, while loving messages and supportive mentors can foster growth and brilliance. Tama emphasized the need to trust one's inner genius and not rush for results, which can lead to self-sabotage. Discipline should be achieved through kindness and encouragement rather than harshness and criticism. Tama and Dr. discussed the importance of self-discovery and self-love in attaining happiness and fulfillment. Tama shared her learning journey to change her relationship with herself, leading to a significant life shift. Dr. shared her own experience of realizing her calling as a therapist and how it has impacted her life. Both emphasized the need to listen to oneself and not be constrained by societal expectations or programming. They also highlighted the importance of abundance and support in one's life rather than focusing on lack. The conversation concluded with a call to practice self-love and support rather than supporting lack. Dr. and Tama discussed the importance of self-awareness and the impact of negative self-talk. Dr. shared her personal experience of journaling and noticing the high ratio of negativity in her life despite achieving her goals. Tama agreed and emphasized the need to pay attention to the tone of the inner voice. They also touched upon trusting oneself and the confusion that can arise from conflicting messages within oneself. Tama suggested that the key to finding the voice to trust is to listen to the tone and be mindful of the content of the inner dialogue. Tama emphasized the importance of trusting one's instincts and making decisions based on love and inspiration rather than external expectations or structures. She suggested that people focus on what they love and take inspired steps rather than trying to fit into predetermined structures. Dr. echoed this sentiment, noting that successful people often discover their way rather than follow external structures.

E390 – Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Shawn Léon Nowotnik on F*CK HAPPINESS

E390 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Zeine chats with Shawn Léon Nowotnik, MSW, LCSW, an artist, author, filmmaker, and therapist outside Chicago. After losing his son to suicide, he was compelled to reevaluate his narrative — and look at how loss, mental health, and addiction can affect every aspect of a person's life. He's developed holistic treatment programs and advocates for improved mental health and addiction disorder treatments, as well as researching, writing, and public speaking about addiction, community, mental health, narrative, and social issues. This episode explores his new book  "F*ck Happiness: The Search for Meaning in a World Gone Mad Chasing Happiness." Learn more about Shawn's work at shawnleonnowotnik.com   # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Dr. Foojan Zeine and Shawn Leonick discussed Shawn's book, "Fuck Happiness." Shawn shared the story behind the book's title, explaining that he initially researched happiness but realized the concept was not about happiness but meaningfulness. He shared his frustration with the initial path and how he eventually came to the title "Fuck Happiness" after realizing his mistake. Dr. Zeine expressed her appreciation for the book and shared her experiences with pursuing happiness, highlighting how societal norms and personal expectations can influence one's understanding of happiness. Shawn discussed the societal pressure to conform to certain expectations of happiness and success, which often leads to depression and dissatisfaction. He emphasized the importance of self-discovery and authenticity, urging people to question their passions and desires rather than unthinkingly following societal norms. Shawn also shared his journey, highlighting how he found his passion for psychotherapy and writing despite initial conditioning. He encouraged listeners to reflect on their lives and consider what brings them joy and fulfillment. Dr. and Shawn discussed the concepts of happiness and meaning, drawing on their shared understanding of human emotions and experiences. They differentiated between fleeting, superficial happiness, such as the joy from a drug or a short-term activity, and a more profound, lasting sense of meaning and purpose. Dr. emphasized the importance of relationships and connections in achieving this state of happiness, while Shawn used the metaphor of ordering a pizza to illustrate the difference. He suggested that happiness is like a fleeting pizza, while meaning is about sharing the experience with others and having deep, meaningful conversations. They also referenced a 100-year study on well-being and happiness, which found that meaningful relationships and connections were key to long-term happiness. Shawn and Dr. discussed the importance of meaningful connections in maintaining a stable baseline of happiness. Shawn emphasized that while happiness is fleeting, meaningful connections can provide long-term fulfillment. He cited the hedonic treadmill phenomenon, where people adapt to positive or negative life events and eventually return to their baseline of happiness. Shawn recommended focusing on nurturing family and close personal connections, which provide a stable foundation for happiness. Dr. shared his personal experience of changing his baseline from depression to a more stable state through therapy and self-work. Both agreed that meaningful connections are crucial for maintaining a healthy baseline of happiness. Dr. discussed the importance of finding meaning in life and being authentic. He emphasized that one can create meaningful connections with others by being authentic. Shawn agreed, adding that authenticity is a significant theme in his book and crucial for good relationships. He suggested that people should overcome the fear of judgment, practice self-compassion, challenge the idea of perfectionism, build strong relationships, internalize their sense of self-worth, and celebrate their uniqueness. Shawn also highlighted the importance of being vulnerable and open to feedback, as it allows for personal growth and development. They emphasized the importance of accepting the ups and downs of life and focusing on the present moment. They also discussed the idea of meaningfulness, with Shawn highlighting the importance of having a hopeful life and adding value to others. They concluded that meaningfulness transcends time and creates a legacy, improving the world.

E389/Inner Voice:A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Cody Peterson on Journey of Enlightenment from Jung to 12 step progam

E389 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Cody Peterson who has been a student of spirituality and religion since childhood. Passionate about the teachings of Carl Jung, he found a profound intersection between Jungian teachings, transformation, and AA's Twelve-Step approach. Eleven + years sober, Peterson takes his spiritual practice very seriously, believing that his recovery (and his life) depends on it. He shares his insights into modern spiritual transformation through his writings and podcast appearances, teaching his audience to make peace with those parts of themselves that they’ve spent their lives avoiding, thereby unlocking transformative power they never dreamed possible. He is an avid outdoor adventurer and owner, with his wife, of a small construction company. His new book is Shadow of a Figure of Light/ The Archetype of the Alcoholic and the Journey to Enlightenment. Learn more at Cody-Peterson.com. # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Dr. and Cody Peterson discussed Cody's book, "The Shadow of a Figure of Light: The Archetype of the Alcoholic and the Journey to Enlightenment". Cody explained the book's cover, which was drawn by a friend, and its connection to the story of Carl Jung's quest for his myth. He also mentioned Jaime D'Angelo, a character in the book, who discovered his spiritual connection through practicing with native Americans and using psychedelic mushrooms. Dr. shared his experiences with dream work and ayahuasca trips, noting the recurring ancient symbols he encountered. Dr. and Cody discussed the connection between psychology and spirituality, with a focus on the role of the subconscious and the concept of the shadow. Cody emphasized the importance of making the darkness conscious in the process of spiritual awakening, drawing on Carl Jung's ideas. They also discussed the symbolism of dreams and the collective myth, and how these relate to the human psyche. The conversation centered around Cody's book, "The Shadow of a Figure of Light," which explores the balance between spirituality and religion, and the acceptance of one's darkness as a source of spiritual vitality. Dr. and Cody discussed the commonalities between various therapeutic approaches, including psychotherapy, dream work, psychedelic treatments, and spirituality. They agreed that the first step in healing is to confront and accept the darkness within oneself, whether it's related to trauma, addiction, or other personal issues. Dr. emphasized the importance of self-acceptance and love for all parts of oneself, while Cody shared his personal experience as an alcoholic and drug addict, noting the parallels between Carl Jung's ideas and the 12-step program. Both agreed that the transformation experienced by addicts through the 12 steps serves as a prototype for psychological transformation in general. Cody discussed his perspective on alcoholism, drawing from Carl Jung's letter to Bill Wilson, co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous. He suggested that alcoholism is a universal thirst for wholeness or union with God and that alcoholics are a prototype of this struggle. Cody also explored the concept of the archetype of the alcoholic, which he found had not been extensively written about. He emphasized the transformative nature of alcoholism, likening it to the prime material in alchemy. Cody highlighted the importance of accepting our murkiness and recognizing that everyone is in the same boat, rather than striving for perfection. Dr. discussed their personal experience with addiction, comparing it to other behaviors and substances. They shared their 30-year work in addiction recovery and opened an outpatient program. Dr. emphasized that addiction stems from a deep-seated unease and anxiety, and people often use substances or behaviors to cope. They noted that falling in love or finding a spiritual connection can be key to recovery, as these connections can guide individuals toward self-discovery and oneness. Dr. also highlighted the importance of self-reflection and daily work in managing addiction. Dr. and Cody discussed the concept of compulsion and its role in human life. Dr. discussed the concept of addiction and the delusion that people often fall into. He explained that people get hooked on a path that promises them a connection and wholeness, but this path is a path of destruction. The association between the addictive behavior and the desired connection is not accurate, leading people to believe that one more use will bring them closer to their goal. Dr. also mentioned that even people who have been sober for a long time can still have this delusion, believing that they can have one more time of using before they die.

E388-Inner Voice-A Heartfelt Chat with Dr.Foojan Zeine & Dr.Brian Licuanan on Resisting Treatment

E388 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Dr. Brian Licuanan an author, speaker, and board-certified psychologist practicing in Southern California. He specializes in insomnia and family crisis interventions as well as has extensive experience working with highly acute clients struggling with substance abuse disorders and mental health conditions. Dr. Licuanan is passionate about educating the public on mental health and substance addiction as he has appeared on The Doctors show on CBS, Dr. Drew Midday Live, Good Day LA along with several podcasts, and has authored several articles. Additionally, his book, "How to Get Your Resisting Loved One into Treatment: A Step-by-Step Guide for Mental Health and/or Addiction Crisis" is a strategy guide to help family members with loved ones refusing help or treatment. www.drbrianlicuanan.com # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Dr. Foojan and Dr. Licuanan discussed the importance of Dr. Licuanan's book, "How to Get Your Resisting Loved One into Treatment," which addresses the challenges families face when dealing with a loved one's addiction or mental health issues. Dr. Foojan and Dr. Licuanan discussed the challenges families face when dealing with addiction. They highlighted the confusion and guilt that can arise from different approaches to addiction, such as tough love or being overly nice. Dr. Foojan noted that addiction can be functional or non-functional, affecting the family's dynamics. Dr. Licuanan emphasized the importance of a balanced approach, which he termed "assertive love" or "respectful boundaries." He warned against the dangers of harsh, unconditional love, which could lead to hopelessness and potentially tragic outcomes. Dr. Foojan and Dr. Licuanan discussed the importance of understanding addiction and its impact on individuals and their families. Dr. Foojan emphasized the need for individuals struggling with addiction to recognize their behavior's impact on others and take responsibility for their actions. Dr. Licuanan agreed, noting that interventions can be effective when done appropriately and focusing on the family unit rather than just the individual. He also highlighted the importance of recognizing each family member's role and responsibility in perpetuating the addiction. Both agreed on the necessity of educating families about addiction before engaging in conversations about it. Dr. Licuanan discussed the concept of disease, emphasizing that there is no single definition and it can encompass various aspects of life, including mental health and substance use disorders. He suggested that everyone has their version of the disease, which can impact their lives. He emphasized the importance of operationally defining terms to ensure everyone is on the same page, particularly in group therapy settings. He highlighted the need to identify and address the actual problems within a family, not just focusing on the individual causing the most harm. Dr. Licuanan also discussed the concept of a 'coalition' or support system, which includes a primary and secondary support system. He stressed the importance of carefully selecting members of the primary support system to avoid fractures in relationships and a unified vision. Dr. Licuanan and Dr. Foojan discussed the importance of family involvement in the treatment process for individuals struggling with addiction. They emphasized the need for careful selection of family members to be involved in the initial phases of the process, as not all family members may be suitable or willing to support the individual throughout the treatment journey. They also highlighted the importance of creating a safe environment for family members to share their experiences and concerns, and to collaborate in supporting the individual in need of treatment. Dr. Foojan asked about strategies to manage resistance from the individual or the family, to which Dr. Licuanan responded by stressing the importance of upfront knowledge and understanding of addiction for family members. Dr. Licuanan discussed the challenges families face when dealing with loved ones struggling with addiction or mental health issues. He emphasized the role of guilt and fear in perpetuating the disease and the importance of setting boundaries and limits. Dr. Licuanan also highlighted the three inevitable consequences of untreated mental health or addiction: jail, institutionalization, or death. He advised families to accept these consequences and focus on what they can control, such as providing options and support. Dr. Foojan then asked about a step-by-step plan for getting a resisting loved one into treatment, to which Dr. Licuanan responded by emphasizing the importance of recognizing what one can and cannot control, and accepting the inevitable consequences of inaction. Dr. Foojan and Dr. Licuanan discussed the importance of calling the police in situations where a loved one is in imminent danger of harming themselves or others. Dr. Licuanan emphasized that law enforcement is increasingly receiving mental health education, which can lead to a more appropriate response. He advised calling 911 and providing as much information as possible about the situation, including any untreated mental health conditions or substance abuse. Dr. Licuanan also stressed the importance of hope and the power of family members to make changes in their loved ones' lives.

E387/Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr Foojan Zeine & Arjang Zendehdel on Resilience & Gratitude

E387 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Arjang Zendehdel, who has been training or researching in over 14 different disciplines to master the secrets of success and fulfillment. Among other distinctions, he has a BA in Communications from UCLA, an MBA from Pepperdine University, and is a Certified Mediator, Master Coach, and Master Practitioner of Neuro Linguistic Programming. In 2002, Arjang founded Dreamality Education &Coaching to teach others how to achieve their potential and live their dreams. As President and Head Trainer of Dreamality, Arjang has created an innovative and proven step-by-step system for producing results in all aspects of life. He combined profound wisdom from 14 disciplines and invented some of the world's most cutting-edge techniques called Precision Transformation Technology™, including the revolutionary Emotional Transformation™ techniques (such as Fear into Power™, Anger into Peace™, Sadness into Joy™ and more). Through life-changing seminars and personal coaching, Dreamality has already supported thousands of people to take quantum leaps forward in performance and quality of life. Arjang has also inspired hundreds of thousands worldwide as a popular radio talk show host on KRSI, KIRN 670AM, and KMET ABC Radio for 13+ years. Donate to: https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-zendehdel-family  . For information about coaching and seminars, go to www.dreamality.com. # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/ Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Remember to Subscribe, Listen, Review, and Share! Find me on these sites: *iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/i...) *Google Play (https://play.google.com/music/m/Inpl5...) *Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/) *YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/DrFoojan) Summary Arjang shared the devastating news of a fire that had destroyed his home, office, and mother-in-law's home, as well as many others in the community. He explained that the fire was the costliest in US history and the worst natural disaster in California's history. Arjang also discussed the financial challenges many in the community faced, as insurance coverage was insufficient and government aid was delayed. He mentioned that some people had no insurance, and even those who did were underinsured, covering only a third or a quarter of the value of their homes. Arjang also highlighted the issue of not having access to their equity in the building for an unknown period. Dr. shared their experience as a therapist and their understanding of how people cope with different types of disasters. They highlighted the importance of community support and the resilience of individuals in the face of adversity. Arjang discussed the emotional impact of losing possessions during an evacuation. He shared his experience of losing oil paintings, Persian rugs, and other cherished items, emphasizing the importance of taking as much as possible during an evacuation. He encouraged everyone to allow their emotions to surface and to face them, as he has done with his family. Arjang shared his experience of losing his home to a wildfire and how he managed to stay calm and focused during the crisis. He used his coaching skills to support a client during a session and then proceeded with a seminar on maintaining peace and happiness despite his challenges. Arjang emphasized that emotional state is a personal choice and that he had used tools and insights to cope with the situation. Arjang emphasized the importance of understanding that our emotions are not solely determined by our circumstances but rather by how we interpret and think about those circumstances. He shared that this understanding gives us control over our emotions and responses rather than being at the mercy of external factors. He encouraged using this inner power to handle any challenge, as he believes that we are all capable of handling any situation that comes our way. Arjang emphasized the importance of spiritual connection and gratitude in overcoming these challenges. He shared a personal experience of losing his home to a fire and how the outpouring of love and support from the community and government agencies helped him cope. Arjang also highlighted the significance of focusing on the good and blessings in life rather than just the challenges. He suggested practicing gratitude and acceptance to foster happiness and resilience. Arjang discussed four fundamental keys to resilience: accessing inner power, focusing on what one is grateful for, accepting challenges, and using challenges for personal growth. Dr. emphasized the importance of focusing on resilience and the power of love and generosity in healing and supporting others.

E386/Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Dr. Susan A. Jackson about State of Flow

E386 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Dr. Susan A. Jackson, a renowned psychologist and author celebrated for her pioneering work on the psychological concept of flow. Her expertise includes high-performance psychology consulting, academic research, writing, and flow experience assessment. With a PhD in Sport and Exercise Psychology, Sue has extensive experience in the sports, performance, and health industries. Her profound insights into flow stem from her close collaboration with Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, the founder of the flow concept. Together, they co-authored Flow in Sports, which was instrumental in bringing an understanding of flow to athletes and coaches. In Experiencing Flow, Sue shares practical strategies for achieving optimal experiences and unlocking human potential across various domains, solidifying her as a leading voice in the field. www.bodyandmindflow.com.au # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/ Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Dr. Jackson and Dr. Foojan discussed the concept of 'flow,' a state of complete engagement and involvement in a task. Dr. Jackson explained that flow is characterized by high task involvement, with no mental energy left for self-consciousness or other distractions. She also mentioned that flow is not limited to sports but can be experienced in various settings such as music, acting, and therapy. The discussion also touched on the connection between flow and passion, agreeing that when one is utterly passionate about something, every part of it is in sync. Dr. Jackson discussed the challenges that prevent individuals from achieving flow, a state of optimal engagement and performance. He identified distractions, self-consciousness, lack of skills, and non-optimal arousal levels as key obstacles. Dr. Jackson emphasized the importance of mindfulness and meditation in overcoming these challenges, as they help individuals focus on the present and develop the skills necessary for flow. He also highlighted the role of motivation and optimal environmental conditions in facilitating flow. She discussed the importance of immediate and clear feedback in maintaining focus and flow during public speaking or performance. Emphasized that negative feedback should not be interpreted as a personal failure, but rather as a personal issue of the audience. Dr. Foojan also highlighted the significance of focusing on the task at hand and not getting distracted by irrelevant thoughts or emotions. She suggested that psychological skills can help maintain focus and refocus when necessary. Lastly, she addressed the issue of some individuals feeling they lack control over their performance, suggesting that understanding the steps and process can help them achieve their goals. Dr. Jackson discussed the concept of flow, which she defined as a state of complete engagement and connection with a task or activity. She emphasized that flow is not an accident but a state that can be cultivated through key factors such as a balance between challenge and skill, clear goals, and feedback. Dr. also highlighted the importance of focus and being able to completely immerse oneself in the task at hand. She described her experience of achieving flow as a complete connection and unity with the task or person involved. Dr discussed the importance of being present at the moment and focusing on the tasks at hand rather than being distracted by external inputs. They emphasized the benefits of mindfulness and meditation in developing these skills. Dr also acknowledged that individuals with attention deficit disorders can experience hyper focus, which can be a strength to be leveraged. They advised these individuals to play to their strengths and develop skills to know when hyper-focus isn't appropriate. Dr. Sue Jackson discussed the importance of flow in enhancing the quality of subjective experience and promoting personal growth. She emphasized that flow allows individuals to engage fully in activities, leading to a more enjoyable and fulfilling experience. Dr. Jackson also highlighted the benefits of flow in developing skills and becoming the best version of oneself. She encouraged the practice of flow in various aspects of life, such as work, nature walks, and even sexual experiences.