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E398–Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr.Foojan Zeine chats & Mónica Esgueva on 7 levels of Wisdom

E398 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Mónica Esgueva, Founder of the Ascension Institute, a renowned self-development teacher and spiritual guide known for bridging the gap between Eastern and Western philosophies. With a profound understanding of the mind, human consciousness, and spirituality, she has been helping the transformation of individuals for more than 16 years. Central to Mónica's teaching and studies is the written word. She is the author of 9 books, including the bestseller in Spain and Latin America, "Mindfulness," and her latest book in English, "The 7 Levels of Wisdom." Born with remarkable spiritual awareness, she immersed herself in profound teachings from Tibetan lamas, including the Dalai Lama, during a decade-long exploration in India and Nepal. She teaches programs and guides meditation & transcendence retreats. She has been a TEDx speaker twice, a frequent Spanish national TV guest, and an international event keynote speaker. Recently, Mónica co-directed and hosted her first documentary on spiritual awakening (Despierta), with a more than 1.5 Million views already and is co-directing a new one about the New Earth. Since 2007, she has taught emotional mastery, self-knowledge, and mindfulness to more than 2,500 executives at companies such as Accenture, Samsung, and Electronic Arts. She was honored as one of the Top 100 Women Leaders in Spain and one of the Top 10 awarded "Thinkers and Experts." In addition to Spain, she has lived in Paris, London, and Tanzania. www.monicaesgueva.com
 
 
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Summary
Dr. and Monica discussed Monica's journey to spiritual enlightenment. Monica shared her experiences of feeling different since childhood, her early interest in spirituality, and her decision to leave her comfortable life in Paris to pursue a path of wisdom and compassion. She described her experiences with Tibetan Lamas and the Dalai Lama, which resonated with her and changed her life. Mònica discusses the concept of wisdom, distinguishing it from intelligence and emphasizing its ethical and moral nature. She explains that wisdom is aligned with the greater good and uses the metaphor of an architect (wisdom) and a carpenter (intelligence) to illustrate the difference. Mònica then introduces her book's concept of seven levels of wisdom, describing the first three levels: conformist, expert, and achiever. She notes that society often views the achiever level as the pinnacle, but in her framework, it is only the third of seven levels. She discussed the importance of self-transcendence and the journey towards becoming the best version of oneself. She emphasized the need to question societal norms and become more independent, resilient, and self-actualized. Mónica also highlighted the importance of accepting others as they are, regardless of their behavior and finding peace in the present moment. She suggested that this level of acceptance allows one to see the perfection in everything and live in peace. Dr. added that this unconditional acceptance and love can transform one's life and lead to mental and emotional well-being.
Mónica emphasized the importance of personal interpretation and emotional control in shaping one's life experience. She argued that individuals should not be victims of their conditioning or programming but rather empowered by their thoughts and emotions. Dr. agreed, suggesting the need for daily practices to maintain equanimity and fulfillment. Mónica proposed being cautious of the media and technology, and practicing meditation or contemplation to connect with one's inner self.
In the meeting, Monica emphasized the importance of introspection, reflection, and presence in daily life. She stressed the need to focus on the present moment rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. Monica also highlighted the significance of having a strong moral and ethical compass, as it determines one's future and ensures a positive outcome. Dr. added that living with integrity and making choices based on the present moment can lead to fulfillment and pride in one's actions.
 
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E397-Inner Voice:A Heartfelt Chat with Dr.Foojan Zeine & Deb Krier on trying not to die & no matter what, just live

E397 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Deb Krier, a seasoned entrepreneur with a rich communications, marketing, and public relations background. A Stage 4 triple positive breast cancer survivor (2015) and thyroid cancer survivor (2023), Deb founded **tryingnottodie.LIVE** in 2022 to empower individuals navigating cancer. Through this platform, she inspires others to embrace their inner Warrior, build supportive communities, and amplify their voices. Deb champions resilience, empowerment, and connection as an advocate and speaker, turning struggles into strengths and fostering hope within the cancer community. Her mission is clear: to help others embrace life and defy cancer's impact. www.tryingnottodie.live # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary: Deb shared her 9-year journey with breast cancer, starting with a diagnosis of microcalcifications at Stage 0, which progressed to Stage 3 after a biopsy. Despite complications, Deb chose the traditional approach of chemotherapy, surgery, and radiation. She experienced septic shock and other complications but continued working throughout her treatment. Deb's technical diagnosis has now become Stage 4 metastatic triple-positive breast cancer, but it has not recurred in 10 years. She also developed thyroid cancer, which was caught early and treated. Deb emphasized the importance of humor and staying upbeat during her challenging journey. The doctor shares a personal experience from when she was 15 years old, describing a poorly handled medical consultation where she was informed about the possibility of cervical cancer. She reflects on how this and subsequent health scares have shaped her understanding of the emotional process patients go through when facing potential life-threatening diagnoses. The doctor emphasizes the importance of shifting focus from the initial fear of death to concentrating on getting better and moving forward. Deb and Dr. discussed the anxiety and panic associated with cancer diagnoses. They highlighted how cancer can bring about existential questions and change one's perspective on life. Deb shared her personal experience with skin cancer and the anxiety that comes with waiting for test results. They also discussed the challenges healthcare professionals face due to overwork and understaffing. Deb discussed her recent medical experience, including an ultrasound and test results. She expressed concern about a new lesion and sought a needle biopsy, which her endocrinologist initially dismissed. However, after consulting her oncologist, she was referred to another doctor who confirmed the lesion was gone. Deb emphasized the importance of considering her medical history in her care. The discussion focuses on self-advocacy and effective communication for cancer patients. Deb emphasizes avoiding vague responses like "I'm fine" and being more specific about one's condition, especially with medical providers. The conversation also covers the challenges of sharing a cancer diagnosis, including dealing with others' reactions and finding a balance between accepting support and maintaining privacy. Dr. Foojan and Deb stress the importance of tailoring support to each patient's needs, whether physical care or emotional uplift. They advise caregivers to ask specific questions about what help is needed and for patients to be clear about their requirements. Deb and Dr. discussed the emotional and psychological impact of cancer diagnosis and treatment on patients. Deb shared her personal experience of undergoing cancer treatment and how it has changed her outlook on life, emphasizing the importance of self-care and setting boundaries. Dr. highlighted the phenomenon of post-traumatic stress and depression that can occur after surviving a serious illness and the need for patients to understand this process. Both agreed that patients need to be aware of the emotional journey they will go through after treatment and that seeking professional help, such as therapy, can be beneficial in navigating these emotions. Deb shared her initiative called "Trying Not to Die Live," which aims to support individuals and their caregivers going through cancer treatment. She emphasized the importance of living life fully, regardless of duration, and encouraged creating a supportive community for warriors and caregivers. Deb also highlighted the need for different types of support groups, as they can provide hope, share experiences, and offer practical advice.

E396 Inner Voice-A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Bob Kaplan on Leaders Striving to Improve

E396 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Bob Kaplan, the author of GRAPPLING: Leaders Striving To Improve, a series of short stories that bring executive coaching to life. His unique style is entertaining and offers a novel way of learning about leadership and self-improvement. The book is based on his decades of experience consulting CEOs and other senior leaders, including founders. He is the founder and president of his own leadership consulting firm, Kaplan DeVries. He invented a 360 survey, the Leadership Versatility Index, that earned a patent for its unique way of assessing leaders. He and his colleagues also take a unique approach to delivering feedback. They place unusually heavy emphasis on positive feedback to boost the leader's confidence. His last book was Fear Your Strengths: What You're Best Could Be Your Biggest Problem. An honorary senior fellow at the Center for Creative Leadership, he has a B.A. and Ph.D. from Yale University. He lives in New York City with his wife, Becky. You can reach him at bobkaplan@kaplandevries.com. # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Dr. and Bob Kaplan discussed Bob's book Grappling Leaders Striving to Improve. Bob shared his inspiration for writing the book: his passion for helping people grow and his fascination with human nature. He explained that the book is a collection of stories exploring leadership's mental aspects, aiming to help senior managers overcome their limitations and become better leaders. Dr. agreed with Bob's approach, emphasizing the importance of understanding and shifting internal belief systems to achieve desired results. Bob and Dr. discussed strategies for effective coaching and management. Bob shared a personal anecdote about helping a head of engineering let go of an underperforming employee, emphasizing the importance of being direct and forceful. Dr. discussed her experiences as a therapist and mentor, noting that transitioning from a supportive to a forceful role could be challenging. The conversation also touched on the importance of establishing a structured system for accountability and how it can create a sense of responsibility within a team. Additionally, Bob shared his experience with an individual who failed to change despite efforts to help him and how changing the approach to build a tighter team around the person was more effective. Bob and Dr. discussed the importance of self-awareness and introspection for individuals, particularly those in leadership roles. They agreed that getting objective feedback from others can help identify one's strengths and weaknesses and that this outside perspective can guide personal growth. They also emphasized the need for individuals to recognize and address their biases, fears, and beliefs that might hinder their performance. Bob shared his personal experiences of balancing his need for achievement with the importance of relationships in the workplace. Bob and Dr. discussed balancing opposing forces or dualities in leadership. Bob shared his leadership model, which consists of two main dualities: strategic vs operational planning and forceful vs enabling. He mentioned the evaluation tool he developed, which uses a rating scale to assess individuals' tendencies to do too much or too little of each aspect. They also touched on the concept of "strength overdone" and the potential adverse effects of maximizing certain qualities. Dr. noted the potential for internal or external "blocks" that hinder progress and suggested exploring these to facilitate improvement. Bob discussed the importance of positive feedback in boosting a person's confidence, especially for those in challenging jobs. He highlighted that while some leaders may struggle to accept high regard, others can benefit from it. Dr. shared their experience of leaders focusing on areas they need to improve rather than recognizing their strengths. They also touched on the human tendency to seek change and acceptance, making it difficult for people to accept their strengths. Bob stressed the need to understand what blocks the uptake of positive feedback and suggested that this could be an area for further exploration. Remember to Subscribe, Listen, Review, and Share! Find me on these sites: *iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/i...) *Google Play (https://play.google.com/music/m/Inpl5...) *Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/) *YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/DrFoojan) Platforms to Like and Follow: *Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/DrFoojanZeine/) *Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/Dr.FoojanZeine) *Twitter (https://www.twitter.com/DrZeine/) *LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/DrFoojanZeine) *Tiktok (https:///www.tiktok.com/dr.foojanzeine)

E395 Inner Voice-A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Erin Williamson- Stopping Child Exploitation

E395 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Erin Williamson, the Chief Programs & Strategy Officer at Love146, where she leads efforts to prevent child trafficking and exploitation. With over 20 years of experience in social services and child protection, Erin has developed trauma-informed programs that have reached thousands of vulnerable youth across the U.S. She is also a parent, advocate, and expert in human trafficking prevention and survivor care. In 2014, Erin was hired by Love146 to build a Survivor Care program in Connecticut. Starting as a single staff member, the program has over 20 staff and serves 125-150 youth annually. Erin oversees all US-based programs, including a prevention education initiative implemented in over 30 states. Her leadership has expanded Love146's reach, focusing on trauma-informed care and addressing the complex needs of youth through the healing power of relationships and community support. Committed to bringing her on-the-ground knowledge to impact systems change, Erin has served on several state and national policy advocacy committees, including the Connecticut Trafficking in Persons Council and the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services National Advisory Committee on the Sex Trafficking of Children & Youth. Locally, she contributes as a Board of Education member in Woodbridge, CT. For more information, go to www.love146.org # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com. Summary Dr. and Erin discussed the issue of human trafficking, mainly focusing on the prevention aspect. Erin shared her background as a social worker and her work with Love146, an organization that works with children and youth who have experienced human trafficking. She emphasized the importance of prevention and the need for a multi-tiered approach, including addressing the systems and structures that make children vulnerable to trafficking. Erin also highlighted the role of schools in identifying and intervening in potential trafficking situations. Dr. and Erin discussed the challenges of working with children who have been abused or neglected and the need for long-term support and trust-building. Erin encouraged the public to support organizations like Love146 through donations and raising awareness about the issue. Erin and Dr. discussed the importance of creating a safe space for children and fostering healthy relationships. Erin emphasized the need for open communication, trust, and the importance of showing up for children even when things are difficult. She also highlighted the need for caregivers to be aware of the impact of early life experiences on children's development. Dr. added that healthy relationships involve communication and working through difficulties, and caregivers should be trained to support children in these situations. They also encouraged parents to sign up for their email series for practical guidance on conversing with their children about social media and other issues.

E394–Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Sean McMann on working less & making more

E394 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Sean McMann. Sean was recruited right out of college to work at one of the largest data firms,  and he embarked on an eight-year journey from a new graduate to a consulting director. Privileged to see behind the curtain of some of the largest corporations today, he recognized the system was broken and quit at the height of his career, when working the least but making the most money he ever had, betting everything, including his money, reputation, and time, on trying to fix the problem of the corporate jungle. He shares his insights in his new book, Hacking the Corporate Jungle: How to Work Less, Make More and Actually Like Your Life.    www.seanmcmann.com # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Corporate Power and Societal Impact Sean McMahon, a former data firm consultant, discussed his views on the corporate world and its societal role. He expressed concerns about the inefficiency and power of large corporations, arguing that they prioritize profit over people and contribute to societal issues. Sean suggested that corporations need to shift their goals from profit above all else to something else, but hasn't yet figured out what that should be. He also mentioned his book, "Hacking the Corporate Jungle," which explores these ideas. Dr. and Sean discussed the potential for corporations to evolve and adapt to changing societal needs, the inefficiencies in corporate structures, and the need for a shift in focus toward a more human-centric approach. He proposed that with efficiency and time saved, individuals should focus on activities that make them feel alive and contribute to their mental health, highlighting the need for a more efficient structure that benefits all, not just a few. They also discussed the potential for individuals to create their businesses and the importance of understanding the value of time in maintaining mental and physical health. They discussed the importance of self-discovery, identity, and fulfillment in one's career. Dedicating one's life to a corporation can lead to unhappiness and a lack of creativity. Sean suggested that people allocate some of their peak creative hours to their corporation while using the rest for personal creativity and self-care. They discussed their journeys and the factors that have shaped their lives. Sean shared his experiences since quitting his job, including a period of depression and a journey to process trauma, which led him to find hope and excitement in his daily life despite the uncertainty of his future. Dr. then shared her experiences working in a sales role and discovering her identity. Dr. decided to leave the role after realizing it required her to become a "barracuda" to make more money. Instead, she became a therapist, created her own companies and nonprofits, and eventually developed her own models. Dr. discussed the challenges of growing a collaborative community, highlighting the difficulty of maintaining structure while allowing individuality and adaptability. Sean agreed, noting the contrast between hierarchical and network structures and the need to shift towards a more networked approach to problem-solving. Both emphasized the importance of human collaboration and adaptability in complex problems. Sean McMahon, author of "Hacking the Corporate Jungle," discussed the importance of listening to one's inner voice when feeling discontent in their job. He emphasized that it's about being grateful for the job and exploring the reasons behind dissatisfaction. Sean encouraged everyone to contact him if they wanted to discuss their concerns. Remember to Subscribe, Listen, Review, and Share! Find me on these sites: *iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/i...) *Google Play (https://play.google.com/music/m/Inpl5...) *Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/) *YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/DrFoojan) Platforms to Like and Follow: *Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/DrFoojanZeine/) *Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/Dr.FoojanZeine) *Twitter (https://www.twitter.com/DrZeine/) *LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/DrFoojanZeine)

E393-Inner Voice:A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Dr. Peter Kristiansen-Ultimate Life Skills

E393 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Dr. Peter Kristiansen; in the last thirty years, he has worked as a doctor, personal advisor, and conflict resolution mediator. Through his work, he realized that our Performance and Perfection Obsessed Culture is the most pervasive-yet often hidden—villain in our lives. He wrote The Ultimate Life Skill to help people break free from the existing paradigm and shift towards a new one, allowing them to experience a more fulfilling life. TheUltimateLifeSkill.com # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com
Summary
Dr. Peter Kristiansen, a chiropractor from Denmark, discussed his journey from treating physical pain to exploring the emotional and thought processes that affect people's lives. He realized that people often seek happiness through external means, but true fulfillment comes from within. Dr. Peter discovered that the brain plays a significant role in controlling our actions and emotions, often resorting to unhealthy coping mechanisms like alcohol, sugar, or smoking. He emphasized the importance of becoming aware of these habits and learning to tolerate the emotional discomfort they cause to make wise choices and lead a more authentic life. This realization led him to write his book, "The Ultimate Life Skills," which aims to help people understand and overcome their emotional struggles. They discussed the role of emotions and the nervous system in shaping human behavior. People often struggle with intense emotions and resort to coping mechanisms such as alcohol, drugs, or excessive work to avoid them. Emphasized the importance of learning to tolerate and manage emotions, which can lead to a more authentic and honest life. They discussed the concept of self-control and forgiveness, emphasizing that people are not in control of their actions due to various factors such as addiction or bad habits. He suggested that instead of punishing oneself, one should focus on gaining control over their actions. Peter also shared his personal experience with sugar addiction and how he learned to tolerate cravings to make better choices. Dr. Peter discusses the importance of understanding and working with the body's natural responses to triggers and emotions. He suggests that instead of controlling external factors, we should focus on quieting down and being present with our bodily sensations. By tolerating and observing uncomfortable emotions, the body can naturally process and release them. This approach allows for more precise decision-making, as emotional reactions influence the brain's higher functions less. The doctor confirms this interpretation, adding that being more conscious of bodily responses can lead to better information processing and wiser choices. He suggested that all humans are traumatized due to their upbringing and the constant observation of others' emotions and actions. He emphasized that the source of unwise acting is often a misinterpretation of bodily sensations. Dr. Peter discussed the concept of willpower and its relationship with the body's response to perceived danger. He explained that the body's nervous system reacts to perceived danger, cutting off the brain's rational part and leading to impulsive behavior, and suggested that this process involves noticing when one is out of control, being aware of it, and then having the willpower to make the right choices. Emphasized the need to stop and notice when engaging in unwanted behaviors and to pause for as long as desired before resuming the original action. He shared his personal experience of overcoming addiction and stress through this method and highlighted the benefits of a more conscious and present life.
 
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E392–Inner Voice:A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Alanna Kaivalya on Way of Satisfied Woman

E392 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Alanna Kaivalya, PhD, a bestselling author, spiritual leader, and expert on mythology, spirituality, and psychology. Her global network has more than 30,000 members, and she hosts the Spiritual Leadership Podcast, initially launched in 2005. She earned a doctorate in mythological studies with an emphasis in depth psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute and is a former board member of the Carl Jung Foundation. She lives in Southern California. More information at www.thesatisfiedwoman.com
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Dr. Foojan and Dr. Alanna explored the interplay of feminine and masculine energies, emphasizing their psychological presence in all individuals. Dr. Alanna highlighted the importance of emotional depth, intuition, creativity, and communication as core feminine traits. Dr. Foojan shared his experience of neglecting his feminine side and how it affected his well-being. They discussed redefining success beyond traditional masculine ideals of linear achievement, advocating for a more holistic and community-focused approach. Women embracing their feminine strengths were encouraged to redefine success without conforming to masculine standards. Dr. Alanna used Greek mythology to illustrate these energies, contrasting Artemis’ strategic, diplomatic nature with Ares’ direct, forceful approach. She encouraged individuals to consider alternative, feminine-driven methods of achieving goals. The discussion also addressed societal pressures on women to constantly give, often leading to emotional exhaustion. Dr. Alanna urged women to rewrite these expectations and embrace reciprocity in relationships. They also discussed the misconceptions surrounding masculinity, emphasizing the importance of healthy masculinity rooted in nurturing and support rather than control. Finally, the conversation stressed the importance of balancing masculine and feminine energies within relationships and personal growth. Dr. Alanna highlighted the need for safety, security, trust, and emotional connection for women to thrive, emphasizing intuition as a guiding force.
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E391 – Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Tama Kieves about Trusting Yourself - Breaking Through the Blocks that Hold You Back

E391 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Tama Kieves, a Harvard Law School honors graduate who left her law practice to write and help others live and breathe their most meaningful self-expression. She is the bestselling author of A Year without Fear: 365 Days of Magnificence and others. Her NEWEST BOOK is Learning to Trust Yourself: Breaking Through the Blocks that Hold You Back. Featured in USA TODAY, Oprah media, TEDx, and more, she is a sought-after speaker and visionary career/success coach who has helped thousands worldwide to discover, launch, and thrive in the life, calling, and work of their dreams. She has been on the faculty of premier holistic venues, leads online programs, and taught A Course in Miracles for years. Tama is known for her smart, spitfire spirituality, electric humor, and the immense possibilities she brings out in others. Be sure to join her on social media and sign up for her complimentary "fortune cookies," digital doses of inspired mindset training at www.tamakieves.com/fortune-cookies/ # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/ Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Dr. and Tama discussed the importance of trusting oneself and drawing from their experiences. Tama shared her journey from being an attorney to becoming a writer, highlighting the societal pressure to conform to expectations rather than follow one's instincts. She emphasized the importance of trusting oneself and following one's heart, noting the need to relearn how to trust oneself amidst societal expectations. Dr. and Tama discussed the importance of listening to one's inner voice of love and strength rather than fear and weakness. Self-criticism can hinder personal growth and creativity, while loving messages and supportive mentors can foster growth and brilliance. Tama emphasized the need to trust one's inner genius and not rush for results, which can lead to self-sabotage. Discipline should be achieved through kindness and encouragement rather than harshness and criticism. Tama and Dr. discussed the importance of self-discovery and self-love in attaining happiness and fulfillment. Tama shared her learning journey to change her relationship with herself, leading to a significant life shift. Dr. shared her own experience of realizing her calling as a therapist and how it has impacted her life. Both emphasized the need to listen to oneself and not be constrained by societal expectations or programming. They also highlighted the importance of abundance and support in one's life rather than focusing on lack. The conversation concluded with a call to practice self-love and support rather than supporting lack. Dr. and Tama discussed the importance of self-awareness and the impact of negative self-talk. Dr. shared her personal experience of journaling and noticing the high ratio of negativity in her life despite achieving her goals. Tama agreed and emphasized the need to pay attention to the tone of the inner voice. They also touched upon trusting oneself and the confusion that can arise from conflicting messages within oneself. Tama suggested that the key to finding the voice to trust is to listen to the tone and be mindful of the content of the inner dialogue. Tama emphasized the importance of trusting one's instincts and making decisions based on love and inspiration rather than external expectations or structures. She suggested that people focus on what they love and take inspired steps rather than trying to fit into predetermined structures. Dr. echoed this sentiment, noting that successful people often discover their way rather than follow external structures.

E390 – Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Shawn Léon Nowotnik on F*CK HAPPINESS

E390 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Zeine chats with Shawn Léon Nowotnik, MSW, LCSW, an artist, author, filmmaker, and therapist outside Chicago. After losing his son to suicide, he was compelled to reevaluate his narrative — and look at how loss, mental health, and addiction can affect every aspect of a person's life. He's developed holistic treatment programs and advocates for improved mental health and addiction disorder treatments, as well as researching, writing, and public speaking about addiction, community, mental health, narrative, and social issues. This episode explores his new book  "F*ck Happiness: The Search for Meaning in a World Gone Mad Chasing Happiness." Learn more about Shawn's work at shawnleonnowotnik.com   # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts/  Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Dr. Foojan Zeine and Shawn Leonick discussed Shawn's book, "Fuck Happiness." Shawn shared the story behind the book's title, explaining that he initially researched happiness but realized the concept was not about happiness but meaningfulness. He shared his frustration with the initial path and how he eventually came to the title "Fuck Happiness" after realizing his mistake. Dr. Zeine expressed her appreciation for the book and shared her experiences with pursuing happiness, highlighting how societal norms and personal expectations can influence one's understanding of happiness. Shawn discussed the societal pressure to conform to certain expectations of happiness and success, which often leads to depression and dissatisfaction. He emphasized the importance of self-discovery and authenticity, urging people to question their passions and desires rather than unthinkingly following societal norms. Shawn also shared his journey, highlighting how he found his passion for psychotherapy and writing despite initial conditioning. He encouraged listeners to reflect on their lives and consider what brings them joy and fulfillment. Dr. and Shawn discussed the concepts of happiness and meaning, drawing on their shared understanding of human emotions and experiences. They differentiated between fleeting, superficial happiness, such as the joy from a drug or a short-term activity, and a more profound, lasting sense of meaning and purpose. Dr. emphasized the importance of relationships and connections in achieving this state of happiness, while Shawn used the metaphor of ordering a pizza to illustrate the difference. He suggested that happiness is like a fleeting pizza, while meaning is about sharing the experience with others and having deep, meaningful conversations. They also referenced a 100-year study on well-being and happiness, which found that meaningful relationships and connections were key to long-term happiness. Shawn and Dr. discussed the importance of meaningful connections in maintaining a stable baseline of happiness. Shawn emphasized that while happiness is fleeting, meaningful connections can provide long-term fulfillment. He cited the hedonic treadmill phenomenon, where people adapt to positive or negative life events and eventually return to their baseline of happiness. Shawn recommended focusing on nurturing family and close personal connections, which provide a stable foundation for happiness. Dr. shared his personal experience of changing his baseline from depression to a more stable state through therapy and self-work. Both agreed that meaningful connections are crucial for maintaining a healthy baseline of happiness. Dr. discussed the importance of finding meaning in life and being authentic. He emphasized that one can create meaningful connections with others by being authentic. Shawn agreed, adding that authenticity is a significant theme in his book and crucial for good relationships. He suggested that people should overcome the fear of judgment, practice self-compassion, challenge the idea of perfectionism, build strong relationships, internalize their sense of self-worth, and celebrate their uniqueness. Shawn also highlighted the importance of being vulnerable and open to feedback, as it allows for personal growth and development. They emphasized the importance of accepting the ups and downs of life and focusing on the present moment. They also discussed the idea of meaningfulness, with Shawn highlighting the importance of having a hopeful life and adding value to others. They concluded that meaningfulness transcends time and creates a legacy, improving the world.

E389/Inner Voice:A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine & Cody Peterson on Journey of Enlightenment from Jung to 12 step progam

E389 – "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Cody Peterson who has been a student of spirituality and religion since childhood. Passionate about the teachings of Carl Jung, he found a profound intersection between Jungian teachings, transformation, and AA's Twelve-Step approach. Eleven + years sober, Peterson takes his spiritual practice very seriously, believing that his recovery (and his life) depends on it. He shares his insights into modern spiritual transformation through his writings and podcast appearances, teaching his audience to make peace with those parts of themselves that they’ve spent their lives avoiding, thereby unlocking transformative power they never dreamed possible. He is an avid outdoor adventurer and owner, with his wife, of a small construction company. His new book is Shadow of a Figure of Light/ The Archetype of the Alcoholic and the Journey to Enlightenment. Learn more at Cody-Peterson.com. # 1 on the 20 Best California Mental Health Podcasts list by FeedSpot. https://podcasts.feedspot.com/california_mental_health_podcasts Check out my website: www.FoojanZeine.com, www.AwarenessIntegration.com, www.Foojan.com Summary Dr. and Cody Peterson discussed Cody's book, "The Shadow of a Figure of Light: The Archetype of the Alcoholic and the Journey to Enlightenment". Cody explained the book's cover, which was drawn by a friend, and its connection to the story of Carl Jung's quest for his myth. He also mentioned Jaime D'Angelo, a character in the book, who discovered his spiritual connection through practicing with native Americans and using psychedelic mushrooms. Dr. shared his experiences with dream work and ayahuasca trips, noting the recurring ancient symbols he encountered. Dr. and Cody discussed the connection between psychology and spirituality, with a focus on the role of the subconscious and the concept of the shadow. Cody emphasized the importance of making the darkness conscious in the process of spiritual awakening, drawing on Carl Jung's ideas. They also discussed the symbolism of dreams and the collective myth, and how these relate to the human psyche. The conversation centered around Cody's book, "The Shadow of a Figure of Light," which explores the balance between spirituality and religion, and the acceptance of one's darkness as a source of spiritual vitality. Dr. and Cody discussed the commonalities between various therapeutic approaches, including psychotherapy, dream work, psychedelic treatments, and spirituality. They agreed that the first step in healing is to confront and accept the darkness within oneself, whether it's related to trauma, addiction, or other personal issues. Dr. emphasized the importance of self-acceptance and love for all parts of oneself, while Cody shared his personal experience as an alcoholic and drug addict, noting the parallels between Carl Jung's ideas and the 12-step program. Both agreed that the transformation experienced by addicts through the 12 steps serves as a prototype for psychological transformation in general. Cody discussed his perspective on alcoholism, drawing from Carl Jung's letter to Bill Wilson, co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous. He suggested that alcoholism is a universal thirst for wholeness or union with God and that alcoholics are a prototype of this struggle. Cody also explored the concept of the archetype of the alcoholic, which he found had not been extensively written about. He emphasized the transformative nature of alcoholism, likening it to the prime material in alchemy. Cody highlighted the importance of accepting our murkiness and recognizing that everyone is in the same boat, rather than striving for perfection. Dr. discussed their personal experience with addiction, comparing it to other behaviors and substances. They shared their 30-year work in addiction recovery and opened an outpatient program. Dr. emphasized that addiction stems from a deep-seated unease and anxiety, and people often use substances or behaviors to cope. They noted that falling in love or finding a spiritual connection can be key to recovery, as these connections can guide individuals toward self-discovery and oneness. Dr. also highlighted the importance of self-reflection and daily work in managing addiction. Dr. and Cody discussed the concept of compulsion and its role in human life. Dr. discussed the concept of addiction and the delusion that people often fall into. He explained that people get hooked on a path that promises them a connection and wholeness, but this path is a path of destruction. The association between the addictive behavior and the desired connection is not accurate, leading people to believe that one more use will bring them closer to their goal. Dr. also mentioned that even people who have been sober for a long time can still have this delusion, believing that they can have one more time of using before they die.